Whose finger should be on the botton?

It is just so relaxing when I am alone, on a trip, among strangers, in places I haven’t visited before, and with cultures I am not accustomed to. Although relying on wireless, and accessing the flow of information on worldwide network has made finding my route in a new city much easier, being a stranger always brings me an exciting chance to face new problems and learn how I can very calmly handle all of them, without losing temper. It can not be put in any words how pleasant it is when i have survived after all (well, unless the problem is really one of the unexpected rare situations which i have physiologically not capable of fighting against and neurocognitively not learned how to cope with! Lets hope my life is short enough not to come across one of these scary rare events=)). I have done a good job individually.
But what if I am with a group? As far as I have an understanding of myself, I have not attempted to be the decision maker when I am with my girl friend, mostly yielding to what she think is the best to proceed (if you think my gf is a lucky girl for that matter, you are wrong!! i have recently found out that decisive strong guys are more attractive to beautiful girls:)); let alone when I am on camping with a group of friends, especially guys who all want to be the unique leader!
Not to get too far from the core idea, i was just imagining how a good husband and dad would I be, should i have married and lived with a wife (only one wife of course!) and two kids, say!!! With this mentality that I have now(like I rather evade conflicts and arguments and shelter to my solitude), i wont be able to manage a happy family!!The kids of the current myself would enjoy being ultimately free to what their neurons naturally trigger them to do (if not restricted by their realistic mom of course, which is not mostly the case!) Their demanding should also not exceed the budget of family (umm..There you go! That is just like a normal family I just figured out!). If only we could be happy alone without a need of having family! Damned to this slow evolution! we yet need to get married, even if critical information to survive in modern life are becoming more and more easily accessible with least interaction with emotional humans...damned!:))

(I got the above shot during my last flight of the series of unforgetful flights I had for the past 10 days. It is beautiful. Isnt it?)