Tuesday, February 15, 2011

fight and friendship

I learned a very important lesson regrading a healthy and honest relationship with people: It is very important that you try hard to understand the other party's perspective and arguments and try to see the world from their eyes. But equally important is that you should also express your true opinion back even though your complete disagreement with the other party bring a bitter moment afterwards. Fighting straight forwardly will finally result in a much better ending than hiding your true opinion with the false hope that passing time might cut away the root of the differences.

I have to develop practices how to implement this in my relationship at both work and home.

These days there is a Wiki for everything. Learn how you should fight:)
http://www.wikihow.com/End-a-Fight-with-a-Friend

6 comments:

  1. Realmente devemos desenvolver a empatia. Esta capacidade de se colocar no lugar do outro nos ajuda muito a conhecer melhor o ser humano. Também ajuda a nós desenvolver para crescer. Só podemos ajudar o próximo ou a nós mesmo quando se tem conhecimento. E a empatia é uma forma de se adquirir este conhecimento.
    Parabens por seu blog.

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  2. You have an informative blog. I’ve learned something from it. I do have mine too www.claire-fernandez.blogspot.com... Thanks

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  3. 2 thumbs up.. nice topic u shared

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